So you see this cute guy at the bar and you think he is WAY out of your league. Well, you should'nt. You don't know what he is looking for. How do you know that you aren't the guy in his dreams?
He may have tried to find a guy just like you for years, and unless you talk to him, you don't know and will most likely never find out neither. Even if he seems a bit unapproachable and not that interested in talking to you, it may just be his way of playing cool. Duh... You know we all do it.